Still donโt know where you’re going?
Maybe that uncertainty isnโt because youโre lostโmaybe itโs because you’re carrying too many hidden expectations into every situation.
When you walk into a room or into a decision and you want somethingโapproval, validation, controlโyou automatically stop seeing things clearly. Your mind starts bending reality to try and get what it wants. You read into people’s expressions, you react to their moods, you lose your center.
But when you walk into a situation needing nothingโ
Not approval.
Not to be feared.
Not to be liked.
Not to prove anything.
Not even to push back or make anyone upsetโ
Then you are free.
Free to observe.
Free to listen.
Free to truly see people and situations for what they actually are, not what you hope or fear them to be.
From that place of clarity, you can act with wisdom instead of reacting out of insecurity.
From that place, you stop chasing a pathโand start choosing your own.
And that’s when you truly begin to know where you’re going.
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